this morning as i turn on my computer and log in at my yahoo messenger, i got an offline message from an old friend. she's one of my good friends who happened to witness how my relationship with my ex-hubby started and ended. even when i left for the US she was constantly updating me on him (since they were officemates).
anyways, going back to the message - it was "chika sa akin ni ... magiging tatay na si ian!!!" man! i was pissed because i really didn't need to know. i don't have anything against her and i knew she didn't mean to hurt me. maybe she just said it casually without thinking that it might strike a raw nerve...well, it did! not because my ex was going to be a dad but more of not thinking whether i would want to know it or not.
you see, i would only get a buzz from her if she has chismis about my ex but other than that - nada! and i've learned to accept that maybe there's nothing really interesting to share about. pero naman diba?
right now, i really don't give a damn with what's happening to my ex and his wife. i have other things to care about than fret about him being a dad!
and about my friend, L - i am still trying to compose in my thoughts on how to tell her without sounding upset that i would rather not be told anything about my ex.
any suggestions?
anyways, going back to the message - it was "chika sa akin ni ... magiging tatay na si ian!!!" man! i was pissed because i really didn't need to know. i don't have anything against her and i knew she didn't mean to hurt me. maybe she just said it casually without thinking that it might strike a raw nerve...well, it did! not because my ex was going to be a dad but more of not thinking whether i would want to know it or not.
you see, i would only get a buzz from her if she has chismis about my ex but other than that - nada! and i've learned to accept that maybe there's nothing really interesting to share about. pero naman diba?
right now, i really don't give a damn with what's happening to my ex and his wife. i have other things to care about than fret about him being a dad!
and about my friend, L - i am still trying to compose in my thoughts on how to tell her without sounding upset that i would rather not be told anything about my ex.
any suggestions?
5 comments:
ehehe... meron ignore function ang YM!
ahahaha...oo nga no!
hmmm..tell it straight and simple..ayoko ng balita sa kanya..brutal ba? :)
What I should probably say: "Thanks for trying to keep me updated pero nag-move on na ako so wag nalang, OK? Hope you understand!"
What I would want to say: "Puwede ba, unless nagka-affair ang asawa niya at iniwan na siya, I don't want to know anything about that f****n' bastard."
What I most likely would say: (Nothing and hope friend gets the messsage :) )
hahaha thanks gigi! but i did talk to her already and everything's fine.
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